If I were Filthy Rich
By Independent_Cell_498+43 Would you help out any friends?
So I always said if I should win big, my plan would be to keep half for myself, then split the rest between mine and my wife’s parents and siblings.
Never really thought about giving some to friends as well. But I’ve heard a couple of friends talk about giving some if they won. One said me and my dad would never have to work again, and one said I would probably see a big check in the mail from him, then never see him again.
Makes me wonder if I should consider taking care of them as well in my hypothetical situation.
Recent responses
+30 @oregonchick Some jackpots are "small" enough that I'd limit my sharing to basically my immediate family (parents and sister) because we've always agreed to split it. But a huge payoff, in the $100 million range? I'd definitely help my extended family and a few close friends who wouldn't try to take advantage of my newfound wealth. After the initial payout to me and getting checks (with a firm message about this being a one-time gift, so don't expect more) to family and friends, I think I'd continue to share the wealth in smaller ways: * Over-tipping servers and others who provide services to me * Picking up the check when out with friends * When I want to do an expensive activity, pay for my friend to participate with me (going to a day spa, upgrading travel arrangements to first class, attending concerts and other events, etc.) * Anonymously paying for other tables' meals or buying groceries for a person who looks like they could use a boost * Buying ridiculous and even ugly stuff at craft fairs and yard sales that are fundraisers for community groups * Hiding dollar bills in the dollar store (I read about someone doing this regularly in a town and nobody could figure out who was giving the cash away) * Playing Santa in some gift-giving way over the holidays Basically, a lot of small gestures and moments where I'd share the wealth just because I was inspired or because there's a sudden need (like a local nonprofit gets burglarized, so I replace their computers, or funding falls through for a school band trip and i cover the cost).
+28 @CocoaAlmondsRock Yes, but I'd help them -- and my family -- anonymously. No way I'd tell anyone that I won the lottery.
+22 @NoGrapefruit1851 I have one very close friend that I would give money to and stay in contact with. I also have a few people that I would give them some money but then I would disappear.
+17 @terryjuicelawson It would need to be in the form of buying them things, not hard cash. Paying off someone's mortgage, no strings attached. Paying for a bathroom refit. Maybe they run a business, a specific investment in it. While not revealing your winnings or even where it came from if you can. Problem could be if you hand over a million and they fuck it all up on drink and drugs then come looking for more handouts, you are kinda responsible.
+16 @-Arraro- id just pay for more stuff when we're together. i wouldn't tell them. just say I got a bonus or something and wanted to celebrate
+13 @mastermanifesting Yes, I look forward to the day I can hand delivery a 6-7 Figure check to my best friend. He would do the same for me.
+12 @BangaloreM I have group chat of childhood friends I’ll pay off all their loans if I hit big
+11 @Physical_Grass_5342 Yes, a few of them—who always heard me, even in my silence...