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If I were Filthy Rich
By EnergySmooth7415
+64 Why do you have to hide that you won the lottery.

I just don't understand why there's a risk of someone murdering you. It's not like friend would get any money from doing so? And why wouldn't you give family some to help them out if it's a lot. Like 10s of millions. I just don't understand what the harm in giving close family members 500k or so would be. First thing I would do is give my mom enough money to buy a house and retire.

Recent responses

+125 @Terradactyl87 What a delightful rock you must live under to have completely missed the true nature of human beings; friends, family, and otherwise.

+118 @Elephantearfanatic Because if you give money to family or friends, it’s never enough. And eventually you’ll have to say ‘no’. And at the point you’re going to be resented for being greedy. There’s more than enough stories about people winning the lottery and being broke in 3-5 years because they spent it all helping others.

+34 @TheSchwartzIsWithMe The risk is your third cousin twice removed sues you because they said you promised 5 million dollars when you were twelve years old. It helps keep away those who feel entitled to money just because they know you

+33 @Ruthless4u Once people know, the scammers and grifters never stop. Ever. The constant harassment makes life miserable for many.

+27 @Apprehensive_Let_828 Its more about people finding out where you live and robbing you, and more than likely murdering you in the process.

+21 @gvillager https://myfox8.com/news/7-charged-in-murder-of-georgia-lottery-winner/ This man was targeted and killed in front of his family after he won $400k.

+19 @Complete_Error8311 you lose your privacy

+18 @TakingItPeasy Because of all the history of lotto winners we have read that apparently you have not. The most common average answer they give is that they regret even cashing the ticket in to begin with. I, like most, feel like we would make it work - but all relationships change and for the worse.

+18 @BowlingForPizza Money changes people. That's why. People get greedy. People get violent. When many millions are on the line, it only amplifies the emotions. Others feel like they deserve it more. Or they deserve it in a way that you never did. Because you didn't "earn it". And thus, they feel that they are entitled to stealing from you, scamming you, unaliving you, or a host of many different solutions to ensure that they are in possession of the money. And not you. Human beings are not rational people. A lifetime of being poor. Or a lifetime of perceived unfairness, bad luck, or financial suffering can fuel anger, hatred, or other emotions like entitlement and greed. All can make someone feel like they deserve it all more than you ever did. Especially if they are a close contact. "Why did THEY win it? They haven't put as much effort into life as I have. Why was \*I\* overlooked by God/Fate/The Universe, etc."?

+14 @Beginning_Lifeguard7 The real problem is that lottery winners are often not very financially savvy. The other problem is that you only hear about the sad stories. I personally had an unexpected, life changing windfall of money. I didn’t have to give up my life and I’ve given substantial amounts to family members. The key is hiring financial and legal experts to help. And the word no is a complete sentence.

+13 @Eagle_Fang135 People hear you win $200M. Well cash option is $100M. Then after taxes you are at $50M. They think you are 4X richer and have a lot more cash. It is a lot. But giving a little here and there adds up. The “just give me $10M you can spare if it is only 5% of your money” when it is really 1/5th. And lots of handouts that even if you gave them money you would run out and still not make them all happy. Lots of people out there that feel they are owed.