I'm curious about everyone else's attitudes about how to share money with siblings with and without families. I started my family later in life, so I always felt like I held a lesser place in the family. If we went away as a family, I had to share a room with some of the kids. I wasn't worthy of my own room because I was a single person. I'm one of 5 siblings, and the youngest is single. In an effort to be fair, and not suggest my single sibling is less worthy, I've been thinking that I would give the same amount to each of my siblings, regardless of their family's size, and then give things to my siblings, sibling-in-laws, and niblings like cars, computers, vacations, maybe shopping sprees.

What do you think? I'm sure some people might think that's unfair, but what's more fair?